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A type of sex policing based on the idea that a lesbian- identified person is of a higher ranking if they've never had sexual contact with a "man". This reinforces the oppressive idea that a person must have been born with a physiological penis in arrange to be a man, and discriminates against FtM (Female to Male) Transgendered people. It also reinforces the transphobic thought that a person who was born with a biological penis cannot legitimately be considered a womyn (and discriminates against MtF- Male to Female- individuals.) Sex Policing like this is dangerous to our communities because it supports destructive sexist ideals, and encourages the creation of rules and regulations about sexuality & gender rather than encouraging to question & break those rules.
"Stacey's a gold star cuz she's never fucked a boy."
"Oh, you're a gold star dyke, too? Let's travel off into the rainbow sunset together on a unicorn made of misogynist shit!"
by trannyfagwitchfucker! April 13,
Its Time to Dump Gold Star Labels
For anyone outside of the lesbian collective, you might not be familiar with the terms gold star lesbians. A gold star lesbian is a lesbian who has never dated, had sex with a man. This might not seem inherently problematic to anyone who isnt deeply rooted in gender and sexuality politics and studies, seeing as the base definition of a lesbian is someone who is attracted solely to women. But this is a highly problematic and toxic mindset to embed into the womxn loving womxn community.
By stating that a lesbian is gold star, it ignores lesbians who may have experimented with their sexuality, are survivors of sexual assault, and is extremely transphobic, biphobic and cissexist.
This grading system is mostly used by trans exclusionary radical feminists (or terfs for short). Although some people who operate the term gold star will try to defend it by saying that the term is reserved for lesbians who hold never had sex with a man, it is almost always connotated with lesbian who has never touched a penis. This reinforces the ide