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What Gay and Bi Men Really Want
Are physical and sexual attraction the most appealing qualities in a partner? Or are unseen qualities like good manners and reliability the most attractive?
Following on from his research into what direct women want and what straight men want, D&M Research’s managing director Derek Jones has taken the next logical step with his latest study into what gay and bi(sexual) men want.
In order to dig deeper and pull out a true list of turn-ons and turn-offs for gay and bi men, Derek once again used of the Im-Ex Polygraph method. He originally devised this method of analysis to distinguish what people say they want from brands, products or services from what they really want by comparing stated versus derived measures of importance.
Qualities the male lover and bi men said they desired in a partner (‘stated’) were compared to the qualities offer in example celebrities they nominated as attractive (‘implied’). The same comparison was made between stated and implied negative qualities, to determine what attributes are really the biggest turn-offs.
Bi Men Are Not Considered Attractive, New Study Says
After three incredible dates with a straight-identified woman, she ghosted me. I felt blindsided. Everything had been going well… or so I thought. She seemed genuinely interested in me and our last go out ended with an hour-long make-out session!
When I asked our mutual friend, who introduced us, what happened, she told me bluntly, “Yeah, she was freaked out by the evidence that you were bi.” Apparently, she was also too cowardly to narrate me herself (or to at least make up a reason why she didn’t want to talk to me again).
I was shocked. On our multiple dates, she didn’t come across uncomfortable when I openly discussed my bisexuality. She even spoke about her time sexually exploring at Wellesley College, when she hooked up with other women.
In the weeks accompanying the date, I idea to myself: if a woman who studied lgbtq+ theory at one of the most progressive colleges in the United States couldn’t date me because of my bisexuality, then who the hell would ever date me?
Sadly, the woman I briefly dated is not alone in her beliefs.
Not to be bewildered with Bi-Veldian.
A bi gay or bi-oriented gay is someone who is both bisexual/biromantic/etc. and same-sex attracted.
This term can be used by men and others who use the split attraction model and are pansexual and homoromantic, queer biromantic or those who experience queer or bi tertiary attraction. They own sexual attraction to two or more genders but are only romantically attracted to their own/similar gender(s). They may find themselves sexually attracted to dissimilar genders, but could never picture themselves in a sexual relationship with them, putting more emphasis on their attraction to their own/similar genders, though this varies from person to person. Or they could be romantically attracted to any gender but only sexually attracted to the same/similar gender or are only willing to be with the same/similar gender(s) sexually.
It can also be used by people who distinguish as both multi-attracted and gay, either due to transforming attraction (such as abrosexuality), or due being part of a plural system, such as having a different sexuality when fronting, or being
The Gay Bi Dads group aims to provide gay and bi-curious men, who may be married, or who are still not out with a safe and confidential space to meet with other men in similar situations. Our group provides support and advice on coming out; managing family life as a queer or bisexual man as successfully as providing an opportunity for you to talk openly and safely about being either a gay or bisexual father.
We hold around 20 members but attendance at the monthly meetings is usually around 6 people so it’s not a large group. New members can just recline and listen and don’t possess to share until they touch comfortable. We have a strict confidentiality policy and we hope for all group members to adhere to this. We meet once a month. Meetings are either support group meetings where we meet in the centre and have a chat over pizza, workshop based meetings where we take part in various workshops or they may be occasional social meetings where we leave out for a light meal or coffee just to socialise.
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