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Why was there never a big leather S&M scene for straights?
Reddy_Mercury1
I’m a straight guy, but I will admit that the whole '70s/early 80s pre-AIDs era of lgbtq+ culture fascinates me. The “Tom of Finland” aspects of the scene with its quasi-Fascist imagery; the leather S&M scene with its emphasis on influence, dominance and free sex. I’ve always enjoyed the film *Cruising *both as a period piece of vintage NYC, as a curiosity, and an intriguing insight in a adorable much deceased subculture.
That said, why did no similar scene develop among straights? I mean, the notion of a ‘leather bar’, for example, is still a very gay thought, I don’t think you’d find many straight leather bars or ‘leather daddies’ who are straight.
Princhester2
Don’t acquire an answer but I must say you picked an interesting username for a straight guy…
astro3
The wiki pretty much answers your question point by direct. Leather was essential to the hyper masculinized glance some gay men coveted in their sexual interactions. Straight men would not feel as compelled to adopt this fetish in their pur
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