Gay mans anus

Meet Your Prostate!

I sure can, and I’m content you asked.

Know what? Some gay⁠ (A man who is attracted to other men, or a person of any sex or gender who is sexually and emotionally attracted to people of the same or a similar sex or gender. Often used alongside lesbian.) men do NOT like having any sort of anal sex⁠ (Sexual activity involving the anus. Anal sex may include stimulation with fingers, the mouth, a penis, sex toys, or other objects or body parts.). Enjoyment of anal sex does not define or judge homosexuality, and lack of enjoyment of anal sex does not define or determine heterosexuality. So, a guy can be homosexual and yet not be all that interested in or even enjoy anal play. You can also be gay without engaging in anal sex: being same-sex attracted is about being attracted to the same-sex⁠ (Different things people choose to do to actively express or enact sexuality and sexual feelings; often this involves genitals, but not always. ), not about having a certain kind of sex, so even a gay guy who never has sex with anyone is still gay, just like a hetero person who has never

Ever wanted to know the secrets to becoming a power bottom? Want to know how to stare after the bottoms in your life? Curious to give bottoming a attempt but not sure how to begin?

We can aid you become a beat bottom! Here are some quick bottoming tips and tricks from ACON’s peer-workshop Booty Basics.

1. Lube

The arse does not produce its own lubrication.

This means that lube is really, really important for any anal play. First, to cease damage to the internal lining of your arse. Second, to make bottoming (and topping!) more pleasurable. And third, to facilitate protect it from infections.

Remember to use water or silicon-based lubes, as oil-based lubes can damage condoms.

2. You

The second principle is YOU. This is the one that covers off all the mental and emotional aspects such as making sure you sense safe, making sure there is consent, that you feel comfortable, that you know your own bottoming limits and desires.

Remember, sex is best for everyone if all the people involved are motivated by trying to maximise everyone’s pleasure safely. You can’t be a good significant other and you c

Understanding Anal Health

Anal sex is a very common practice among gay, bisexual, and queer men. Knowing the risks and how to appreciate safer anal sex is vital to a healthy sex life.

The fact is, a lot goes on down there. Many conditions can impact your anal health aside from HIV, gonorrhea, chlamydia, and syphilis. Clinics like Red Door in Minneapolis and Clinic in St. Paul are kind and gay-friendly. Waiting to see if symptoms disappear may only prolong an unpleasant condition or give you a false sense of confidence that you don’t have a sexually transmitted infection (STI) when, in fact, you do.

Good prevention doesn’t just mean avoiding health problems — it also means dealing with those problems quickly. If your rear end is troubling you, swallow that shyness and make an appointment to see a doctor. Your anus will thank you.

Aside from HIV and STIs, what can disturb an otherwise happy and well butt?  Here is a quick roll call of health conditions that can occur.

Anal Itch

Known formerly as anal pruritus, it means the skin around your anus itches. The degree can range fr

Man-to-man

Man to Man sex

The only way to reduce HIV transmission or other sexually transmitted infections during sex is to use a barrier - most commonly a condom.

If you are having anal sex, it's vital that you use a regular condom which fits your penis, and apply plenty of water based lubricant. Recent studies own shown that extra powerful condoms are not needed for anal sex, providing that you use them properly.

Although in the UK, flavoured condoms are put under the matching rigorous testing as regular condoms, they generally should not be used for anal sex, as they can cause irritation to the anus; other novelty condoms should not be used for anal sex.

If you are not having anal sex, still be aware of any sores or cuts you have which may be exposed to your partner's semen. For example, if you are going to have oral sex, build sure you don't brush your teeth immediately beforehand as this can produce small cuts in your gums; chew gum or use mouthwash instead.

If you would like more information on STIs; their symptoms and how to reduce the risks, then cl